Approximately three times is what I usually do. Unless of course I need her buy-in right away on something, in which case I do it right away. She has never admitted to knowing my method, but I'm sure she is wise to it.
Point in case, I helped her package her amazon book sales for shipping this AM, and stood in line at the P.O to ship them. Reason? I want to go to McEwen tomorrow to help get ready for the Winter runs this coming weekend. Retirement is great, except I don't have enough time to do all I want!
dan