Hi,
Some people have a glass half full and others have a glass half empty. Both points of view are valid.
Some just want their way no matter who they walk over - like my sister. She will not even acknowledge that anyone else's opinions - if they differ from hers - are valid and she bullies (alpha male bull-in--a-china-shop) to get her way because it is the only way (as she sees it). She does not even accept that I have a right to voice my opinion (first amendment) - she just shouts me down. I've put up with it for 58-odd years and I still do not like it. She and I are now estranged because of Mom's death - Mom was the buffer I needed to deal with my sister's intolerance.
Doug vV