Some people need to start the healing process by talking this out. Some do not. Frequently talking with friends such as on this BBS helps more.
I agree this type of discussion does not have any relation to the board's theme, but I do believe that healing is much more important.
Nothing says you need to read the posts that are clearly not narrow gauge oriented.
At times during the past day and a haly I've wanted to screem for everyone to shut up but I also realise it is important to many to open up about it with people they know such at those we've never met but know on this BBS.
My blessings and best wishes to all in getting past this horrific event.