Now my wife who is a Bonafide SpaƱa Woman born and raised (for generations) says they don't fight over that country down South. She says they are very willing to fight when they talk about "chili" like chili rellenos, then some one confuses it with "chili", or as she calls it "that strange Gringo bean soup they make over in Texas".
In the respectable Espanola bars they save fighting for very controversial things such as the clock hitting the top of the hour!
It is so much nicer when she tears me a new one in Spanish rather than in English. I really wish I didn't know as much Spanish as I do. But hey, she hasn't stabbed me in the 27 years we have been together, yet...
Even when I moved her to South Dakota!